"Do we deserve a second SECOND chance?"

I will start this by giving an example. A tries to borrow Rp50000 for his sudden needs. Although he says that he is "borrowing", I won't ask him to pay me back because he is my friend
However, he came back and ask me to lend him Rp100000 for his sudden needs and to pay the money he lost in a casino with the money I lent him.
In this case, would you give him a second chance?

Based on my first posting about second chance in "Everybody deserves a second chance", I told you all to give everyone a second chance. But would you strong enough to fight your anger to your friend? Would you trust him?

And, "do we deserve a second SECOND chance?".

I suggest you not to give chances to every situation, because you definitely need to analyze the problem first, and the person you are giving a second chance. Not every person deserves one because not every person has responsibility. And things that make them to fail is in their own selves.
Maybe because of laziness, untruthfulness, and many other negative factors.

So if you want to give a second or third or more, you have to analyze it first. What to analyze?
1. the factor they fail
2. the passion to be successful
3. the vision of their work
4. all of the background (try to understand deeply what is he/she doing)

But try not giving a second chance fully free. You have to make sure them that they will use the second chance properly and not to waste it.
honestly, second chance is not so easy to give. But you have to...
as I believe, we are also a "second chance" person. en