Respect Diversity...

I born in a very diverse big family... There are some of my Uncle and Aunty's are from other religion and even race. However, we respect each others' belief and origin without any significant efforts. I have Indian, Chinese, Malayan, and American Jewish relatives. Being in this family, I learn to respect all diversities in this world.
I respect all races and beliefs and religions because I am literally one of them. Nothing can be discriminated because we born and grow here in the same place, Indonesia. So, I can't find any good reason to discriminate. Face characteristics, language, skin colour, and beliefs are not good reasons for being disrespectful to each others.
Although my face does not show the mixed race and culture, diversity runs in my blood. I won't disrespect my own part...My own family.
I can't say we have same characteristics, but I can say that we are from the same root.
I write this without residing the facts that there are some people whom we try to respect, insult us by mentioning the differences between us. At least we already try to fully respect them with all of our heart. Whether they want to respect us or not, it is their choices...

"Although my face does not show different races mixed in one, diversity runs in my blood."

I am Sylar.. the Average Guy..

Just want to share some of my feeling and what I've got today.
After thinking and struggle to find my true self which made me down recently...
I found a very good conclusion from one of my best friend.

Before talking about "General Guy" deeper, I will talk about what happened to me on these days... I was thinking that I do not have any expertise. I thought that I do not have any competencies. some proof, even though during high school year, I got good marks, I still cannot find any best subjects. I cant find the subjects that I like the most...

But, after some chat with my friend,I got the one clue that is very important for me to stay in the course. This clue really helps me to know my character better.
he told me that being general is my expertise... I can help in everything although not as an expert. Yeah, i realize that so long, but not this clear....Now, I could recognize myself as the "general Guy"...my abilities are more or less are in same level...

is that strength or weakness? Some people say that every one must have at least one expertise that he/she like the most because being general is as same as Zero cos you can do nothing. However, I would make it my strength though. Because I could help others in many things...

You may be wondering, why I put the title "I am Sylar"... Besides He is my favourite character in Heroes series... I feel that He is just like me..."the General Guy"...
He can do most abilities that exist in Heroes' world, so he has no expertise...
Then what is his expertise? being "Everything and General"...

Just now I remember that when I play games that required me to choose the ability of my character, most of the time I choose the one with has average level in every ability. for instance, A has Greater Power but lower speed, B has lower Power bit greater speed, and C has average power and average speed... then I would choose C...
so, What do you choose?

Being Disable...Shameful or Thankful? Cover or Uncover it?

I hope you all who have any disability can read this and be inspired.

Everybody has his/her weakness...Physical, attitude, behaviour, psychological, and other weaknesses. Do we have to be shameful or thankful? Do we have to cover them or uncover them?

If we feel shame about our own weaknesses, it won't help. Because, you will not be brave enough to go out of the box. You will feel limited and halted.
But if you feel thankful for being differently able (not disable)you will be able to overcome them and make it you strength. So, whether the general public want to accept or refuse you, it is up to them. I bet your true families and friends will definitely accept you unconditionally. If they are not, be Strong... Show them that you are still able even though with different way. Show your strength to bury your weakness...so LEARN and STRENGTHEN yourself...
But before being accepted by others, you have to admit your own self. How would others admit when you would not?

If we uncover our weaknesses, they will truly know us better. So they will tolerate and even help us to triumph over your disability...
Let me put it like this...If a person do not know if you cant speak, they will disrespect when you do not answer them. But if they know you are differently able, they would understand.

So...What should we do? Expose or Cover? the answer is none of them...
just show that you are able...differently... en

Face (addictive) book

Oh man...I am addicted to this thing...the game, the communication, everything inside it.

dammit...

I patronize facebook a lot to update, communicate and even play "standard" games almost every hour.
Those games are just an ordinary boring games, but I am not boring playing them. haizz... what's wrong with me??? Those games like Mafia Wars, Restaurant City, and Happy farm... What's so special with those? in terms of quality, it's zero...
but in terms of togetherness where we could play with friends in facebook, it is so fun...competing with friends, cooperate with them, man..i guess that's why I am so addicted to the game..and disturb my working hours taking care of my "restaurant" in facebook..hahaha...besides, it is real time game, so you have to keep them updated. en

Help...

Hi...

I feel down today...
I do not know what to do in my office...
I need some inspiration to open a new business...
I need some ideas...
I need some joy..
I need money (hehehe)....
I want to find the job that fit me best...
I cannot see my future clearly now...


Haizz...


I really need some help coz my problem that I am facing now is about my future...


....


Help?




Luckily...
I still have family, friends, and lover...
They are my support..They are my Backbone... (lu kira Andra doang yang bisa?) hehee...
They are the ones who will give their time for me...

but of course,


they also need help...

just like me...


So, Let's just help each other...


Peace...^^